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Snack with Fruit!

We have discussed before that diet has some implications on our mental wellbeing. In a study conducted last year in the UK, researchers tested this idea further by seeing whether snacking on fruit as opposed to savory non-nutritional food items like chips, would have any correlations with mental health. They found that those that snacked on fruit had higher levels of mental wellbeing and lower levels of depression. In contrast, those that snacked more on the savory non-nutritional food items reported higher frequencies of mental lapses which was associated with symptoms of anxiety and depression, as well as generally lower mental wellbeing scores. Although diet and mental health research is not as prevalent, these findings do imply some sort of connection. With this being said, try to snack on healthier items like fruit instead of chips or sweets to see if your mood and mental wellbeing is improved by it!

Put Down Your Phone!

Phones have become an intricate part of our lives. Now that we can access seemingly everything we want to with just a couple taps and swipes, it can almost feel impossible to not want to scroll on social media apps, text, call, take photos, browse google or do anything else virtually we want when we want to. This, however, can be emotionally draining and exhausting, as well as impact our mental health in a variety of ways. For one, constant messaging and emailing through our phones throughout the day can cause more stress in our lives, making it seem that we are not the ones in control. In other words, with notifications popping up, it can feel like we are living in a continuous to-do list that keeps adding things to our agenda. Furthermore, it can taint our sense of gratification. Our phones are an electronic dopamine loop, meaning we can scroll online to gain instant gratification and fulfillment. With this constantly occurring, we can become too engulfed in our phones to realize the happiness that surrounds all of us in our lives. Now, I am not saying phones are always bad. Sometimes we do receive important text messages or phone calls that we need to respond to immediately, however, because constant usage of our phones does have implications on lowering our mental wellness, try this little mindfulness experiment to see how much your phone may be impacting your mood:

First, pick a day to monitor your phone usage. Carry on throughout the day like any normal day, and use your phone the same amount. What I will ask you to do though is to be mindful about how scrolling, answering texts, answering phone calls, going online, etc. makes you feel before and after you do so. Jot down some notes about what emotions you have and have what you are engaging with on your phone, as well as how your overall mood is throughout the day. Now, pick a day to set your phone down. Try going throughout your day without checking your phone. If you feel you need to, ask yourself why you need to, what will that benefit, and what would happen if you did not. Jot down notes on how you feel without your phone. Do you feel like you are missing something or uncomfortable? Do you feel more in the moment and present? How have you been feeling throughout the day? Next, compare the notes over the course of the two days and reflect on the way your phone usage is interacting with your mental wellness and behaviors. You may just find something out about yourself and your phone usage that you may want to change!

Yoga Happiness!

If you are feeling stressed or anxious, or even have trouble with your sleeping behaviors, yoga may be a great activity to start engaging in! Research conducted by Harvard explains that with consistent yoga practice, and the mindfulness that accompanies it, people tend to exhibit positive outcomes such as better sleep, better body awareness, weight loss, improved levels of compassion and gratitude which all feed into improved happiness levels. Focusing on the positive sleep outcomes from yoga, Harvard’s research also explains that due to yoga’s ability to reduce stress, anxiety, and arousal, these aspects can help minimize poor sleeping activity and allow you to feel more calm and relaxed when it is time to go to bed. With this being said, if you are trying to find a nice, short, daily activity that can benefit your overall emotions and happiness, try out yoga. It doesn’t need to be at a class either! There are many great videos online that take you through a guided yoga session for you to do in the comfort of your own home! Namaste!

Reading in the Sun is Fun!

With the nice summer air, cloudless skies, and the sun’s beaming light coming down, it is important to get outside and enjoy these beautiful  summer months. One activity that is simple and can get your mind engaged as well as get you outside on a nice summer day is reading outside! For one, the sun’s natural light is less straining for your eyes, giving you a less uncomfortable and more relaxed experience when reading the pages of your book of choice. Reading outside also heightens your senses, allowing you to be more in tune with your surroundings and more in tune with the nice ambience of the outdoors. Furthermore, studies have shown that reading outside in the sun lowers your stress levels by minimizing the stress hormone cortisol. So, with implications of reading outside keeping you more concentrated, more in tune with the book and your surroundings, as well as more relaxed, try to get out in the nice summer weather and enjoy an exciting book to take a break and find some happiness!

Switch Up Your Hair!

Cutting or coloring your hair can make you feel like a new person! If you feel like you’re in a slump or want to change up your style, changing your hair can be a great way to gain confidence. You can try a new color, or even light highlights if you don’t want to change your hairdo too much. Try some new layers, lengths, or bang styles. There is so much to explore! The internet has made looking up hairstyle inspiration so simple. And, if you want an at-home project, you can dye your hair yourself (though I recommend doing a lot of research before doing this!). Though this is the harder way, many times it’s cheaper and makes you feel even more accomplished since you did it yourself!
Lastly, even if you don’t want to switch up your hairdo, getting a fresh haircut or styling your hair a different way can still make you feel good!

The Importance of Play as an Adult

“The opposite of play is not work; the opposite of play is depression.” – Dr. Stuart Brown, founder of the National Institute for Play

While adults are typically the ones teaching children, there is so much we can learn from them and their attitude toward the world. The carefree nature that comes with childhood is one of the most beautiful things in the world. While “playing” is seen as a childlike activity, it can increase creativity in adults and generally make you happier, according to Dr. Chris Bogart, a licensed clinical psychologist from Connecticut. He defines play as “time spent without purpose.” As adults, we often think of a lack of purpose as a waste of time and energy. But that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Just because you aren’t getting a task done, having fun is essential for maintaining your mental health. 

So, dance around your room to Beyonce or the Beatles! Play tug of war with your dog! Let your imagination run wild, and allow yourself to truly let go and play.

Wellness Apps!

If you find yourself attached to your phone and technology, as many of us do, it may take a lot of work to keep a physical paper journal or mindfulness tracker. I’ve bought a few wellness journals in my life and attempted to write in them daily, only to forget they exist a month later. So, instead of separating technology from my wellness, I started using various wellness apps! Apps make it super easy to integrate mindfulness and good skills into your everyday life if you are a natural techie! Here are some examples:

  • Headspace – This app holds a lot of things, ranging from meditation to stress management! They have meditation guides, breathing exercises, bedtime stories (for both kids and adults!), life advice, and self-care tips! Unfortunately, you have to pay for this app, with it being $12.99 per month (or $5.83 per month if you bill annually).
  • Smiling Mind – This app, on the other hand, is free! They have daily meditation exercises, with programs both for youth and adults. Their app addresses sleep, stress, relationships, well-being, and much more. You can even attach your Google Home to it!

Next time you feel like you want to mindlessly be on your phone, try to turn that urge into a short 10-minute meditation session!

Practice Creativity Mindfulness

Just like any type of skill, people vary in their level of expertise in creativity, however, regardless of how well you think you are, creativity is a great source for practicing mindfulness. Well first, what is creativity? Creativity can come in various forms from working on a garden, to painting, to even planning a party for a friend. Creativity is just using your imagination and engaging your time, effort, and feelings into a goal. Findings suggest having these creative goals can increase one’s happiness, optimism, and excitement. With this being said, finding what allows you to be creative can serve as a great tool to release any negative thoughts and feelings onto a canvas, paper, or whatever outlet of creativity you decide to indulge in.  One of the main reasons why we find ourselves relieving our stress, anxieties, anger, and other negative emotions through creative goals is the ability for creativity to engage one into a “flow.” This flow is what can create a euphoric feeling that allows us to stay focused, engaged, mindful, present, and when it is all done, accomplished. Because of this, it is important to find your creative goal that you will be able to be excited about and enjoy doing. It is also important to note to not get frustrated at first. Creativity is a skill that needs to be developed, so by continuing to use your imagination and engage your senses into what you decide your creative goal is, you are already getting better! Try drawing, painting, dancing, or even going outside and cloud watching to start on your creative goal, and become more creatively mindful!

Positive Podcasts!

Sometimes it can be challenging for people who are auditory learners to sit down and read a book. I find myself mindlessly staring at the pages, sometimes reading a page multiple times just to retain the information. This is where podcasts can be a great resource! Plus, there are a TON dedicated to learning about psychology! Dr. Chris Bogart, a licensed clinical psychologist from Connecticut, recommended these podcasts in a recent talk, “The Upsides of Stress”:

  • Tiny Buddha
  • The Positive Psychology Podcast
  • The Anxiety Podcast

For far more options that aren’t necessarily about wellness, Audible is an excellent audiobook resource, and Apple Podcasts has so many shows to choose from!

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