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Family (leaving) Makes Me Happy

October 15, 2012

I just had family visit from the west coast. It is genuinely great to see them! Given the distance, work schedules, and small children it’s not always easy to take the trip out west, so I am very glad & grateful that they can come visit us instead of us having to do the traveling. But let’s be clear – there’s still work. A lot of work is created when family visits…extra cleaning, special food shopping, planning adventures, and many many many other things . It’s fantastic to have the family here. But you know what is even better than having them visit??? HAVING THEM LEAVE! Getting your own space back is a good thing & makes me happy. =)

Do you love being with your extended family but also have conflicting feelings about being around them? Do you have suggestions for handling that?

 

Dripping in Sweat

October 8, 2012

I genuinely enjoy exercise. It’s a bit of an endorphin “high” for me and definitely helps me regulate my mood. But it’s not good enough to just get a casual walk, or even a more intense walk in a shorter period of time. I don’t need the casual walk, but rather I need the dripping-in-sweat-from-my-eyelids-to-my-knees type of workout. I am quite happy with myself when I exercise hard – happy with my commitment to my health, the endorphin rush, and the post I can make on Facebook telling everyone how fantastic I am because I worked out & they probably didn’t. I wish I could exercise for 2 hours every day…but reality gets in the way of that plan. So I do what I can & really savor those happy, sweaty workouts when I can get ‘em.

Does exercise make you happy? Is it a stress release?

 

Happiness = Dog

September 24, 2012

I love my dogs.  No, that doesn’t quite cover it.  I really really really looooooove my dogs.  As I get older I have come to realize how connected I am to these animals… both are ditch dogs, both needed a home, and both chose me more than I chose them.  I feel that these two dogs are humans trapped in fur costumes.   They are the epitome of love.   They are love personified.  I can’t imagine living my life without pets, especially dogs.  There is just something about snuggling with a good dog that brings about happiness.  I know that having dogs in my life has made me a happier and better person.

Have you had a dog (or pet) that has made a difference in your life?  Are you a happier person because of your relationship with your dog?

 

Kindergarten Readiness: Is Early Entry to Kindergarten Right For My Child?

When parents call to ask about early entry to kindergarten, I often hear, “I know everyone thinks their child is brilliant, but my child really is advanced.” … And they are generally correct! They have noticed their child recognized letters and numbers early, perhaps even started reading some, seems to take in information and retain it, and has a strong curiosity around academic-type learning. If you have noticed these things in your child and are trying to decide whether early entry to kindergarten is right for your child, there are several things to consider. Read More→

Psychological Effects of 9/11

As the 9/11 memorial in New York City opened, thousands gathered to remember those that lost their lives. The collective voice of America on September 11, 2011 was “We Will Never Forget.” Those words were plastered on major online news sources. They were published on the signs of memorial service attendees. They were heard on television and radio stations. America will never forget those that risked and scarified their lives to save others. For some, those words are a tribute to the parent, child, co-worker, husband, wife, or friend that lost his/her life. For others, those words represent their inability to forget the inhumane actions of the terrorists themselves. While the words “We Will Never Forget” mean different things to everyone, those words symbolize the change within the lives of many. Whether indirectly or directly exposed, September 11 produced social, economical, and psychological effects on many. The following discusses the psychological effects of those directly affected versus indirectly affected by the events of September 11, as well the resiliency produced individually and as a nation. Read More→

Managing Anxiety for Athletes

The fall season brings not only cooler temperatures, but an exciting time in the world of sports. Football season is well under way, baseball season is moving into the post-season, and school sports have started in earnest. For athletes of any level, this is a perfect time to think about the psychological component of sports and fitness. There is an old adage that “practice makes perfect,” however continual practice without attention to the mental aspects of performance can leave an athlete performing below her or his potential. Whether someone is an elite/professional athlete or a weekend workout warrior, paying some attention to mental conditioning can enhance their outcome and enjoyment of sport and exercise. Additionally, this often results in better attainment of goals, such as sport specific achievements or weight loss. Working with a psychologist is a great way to maximize an athlete’s potential. Read More→

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