Relationship Strengths Quiz

This quiz can be taken by partners at all stages of their relationship:

unmarried couples, engaged couples, or married couples.

1. My friends and family fully supported, or would support, my decision to marry my partner (or make a life commitment to my partner).

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. I know how much my partner makes and how much debt my partner has.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. I am very satisfied with the amount of affection I receive from my partner.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. My partner and I agree on how many children we want to have and when we want to have them.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. My partner and I were raised in families with similar rules and closeness.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. I tend to avoid discussing issues with my partner that are important to me.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. When my partner and I disagree, we often call each other names, roll our eyes, sneer, or mock each other.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. When my partner and I disagree, one of us usually gives reasons why the problem is the other person’s fault.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1. During disagreements, one of us usually tunes out or seems to not care at all what the other person is saying.

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree

1.  Once an argument has begun, we find it hard to feel calm, take a break, or laugh. 

Agree                        Not sure                    Disagree